You will either be Judged or Ignored ..
FEAR- This 4 letter word looks small but holds a whole emotion . No matter how much a person looks stronger he /she has something or the other he/she will fear , we all have different fears and most of the time we are not comfortable sharing it with people. Sometimes we never really say our opinions loudly — we restrain ourselves from getting criticized, we are afraid of being judged ,we fear that people will laugh at us and will make fun of our opinion .
Everyone is afraid to be judged, to be criticized or make fun of but the only difference is some people don’t show it and some are easily taken away by the situation .People will judge , they will find something or other to criticize you because at the end of the day ‘no matter what you decide someone will disagree’.
The reality is not every person will like you (or me). But, if you want to make anything significant in this world, it’s essential to build up your own winning plan for dealing with criticism.Since it will occur. Some criticism will contain significant experiences for positive development, and quite a bit of it won’t.
If you are sitting in a room consisting 10 people its not necessary that each one them will approve your opinions and judgement, -and if someone criticizes you that not always mean that they dislike you or want to see you down it can be sometimes that the way of looking things through that person eye is different from yours ..
Studies show we’re four times more likely to remember negative criticism then praise even among happy people and that bad feedback is processed more thoroughly than good.Think about what’s productive in being criticized ,discover the chunk of truth in it, and let it motivate better expectations.
Its okay if people laugh at your opinions trust me that will help you , push you to become even more better ..some day or the other those people will appreciate you but for that you have to focus on your goal and not shift your focus because of being criticized .
You will say stupid things .. You will make mistakes but at least at the end of the day you wont be dissatisfied by yourself for not even trying .. at least you tried ..you didn’t sit quiet because of being afraid .
Overcome your insecurities .. bad experiences will only make you learn important lessons in life .